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From when we were babies to hitherto social pressures have forced us into the role of being a man.

We were discouraged to act feminine. It’s part of being socialized.

This was dinned into us by our mother and father; by books we read and TV shows we watched; and by our teachers in school.

Let’s look at an example.

I want you to do something educational: schlep over to a toy store.

You’ll notice that most toys aren’t for boys and girls.

In the boys section you’ll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.

In the girl’s section you’ll find Barbie dolls and Dora the Explorer.

These toys aren’t just “toys.” They’re teaching aids for training kids to become a man or a woman.

If a boy is caught brushing a Brat doll’s hair his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.

If his mother or father catch him doing this, they’ll immediately take the doll away from him and worry that he isn’t being socialized as a male.

As a result, most boys grow up to become men fearful of acting like a woman.

There’s nothing wrong with this except that some of the best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called “Dandies.”

They oscillate between the role of a man and a woman.

In fact, their seductive power lies in that they cannot be categorized as masculine or feminine.

When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.

The famous psychiatrist Dr. Freud famously said that people are bisexual. According to him, all of us are attracted to both males and females.

But but being stigmatized prevents most of us from acting on these urges.

Women are attracted to the Dandy because he is a woman inside a man’s body.

Dandies have an impudence towards pleasing women. Ironically, women find this quality intoxicating.

Here’s a simple guide to turning yourself into a Dandy: learn to pay attention to the smallest details, develop a disdain for pleasing others, and nurture your feminine side.

I want to leave you with a quote from Pablo Picasso: “I am a woman. Every artist is a woman and should have a taste for other women. Artists who are homosexual cannot be true artists because they like men, and since they themselves are women they are reverting to normality.”

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It has happened to every man… and it plain sucks…

A girl hotter than the super model Gisele traps you dead in your tracks.

She’s got a body and face that would earn an A + in Hitler’s book any day.

You may even think about doing things to her that wouldn’t get mom’s seal of approval.

Now for the part that’s more gruesome than a baby lamb halfway through fleecing and slaughtering…

You come back to reality and realize this sexy vixen is right in front of you.

Your tongue is tied into a knot. In this moment, you feel like you’ve got the conversation skills of Forrest Gump.

“If I had the ultimate pick up line, I could be doing the nasty with her in no time” you think to yourself.

Maybe.

But consider this…

Give a group of men the same pick up line. Some of them will crash and burn. But others will be making sweet monkey love with a woman in no time.

Another point to consider…

If you’ve ever watched naturals in action, you may notice that many don’t use pick up lines.

When they do use one, it’s so bad, they have cheese wiz oozing out of every orifice.

Here’s my point…

There’s nothing wrong with using a pickup line.

But it isn’t the words flying out of your trap that spark a sexual interaction between you and a woman.

What’s the trick?

Get a face transplant, buddy?

Just joking.

Here’s my advice…

When out hitting the single scene trenches, observe the men who suck up all the female attention.

Ignore the content of what they’re saying.

Instead, notice how they talk to and act around gorgeous girls.

About twelve years ago, I did this and discovered certain universal behavioral patterns all ladies men exhibit when approaching and sexually vibing with women.

In this article, I don’t have time to share them all.

But here are a couple to get you started…

1) Get out of your head:

Ladies men don’t spend much time fretting over how a woman is going to react to them. Instead, they are extroverted perceivers. In other words, they expend their mental energy observing their environment and the women they’d like to approach.

Here’s an exercise that will pull you outside your head and into the real world…

When hitting the single scene trenches, spend some time observing your environment. What’s going on? Who’s trying to pick up who? What are the women doing? Do they feel happy, upset, smug… or some else? What are they wearing and what does it mean about them? This will move your focus of attention away from the negative thoughts in your head and onto your environment where it belongs.

2) When they see a woman they like, they approach right away:

When most men see an attractive woman, their mind floods with a stampede of worries, such as: “Am I too short or too tall for her?” Will she embarrass me in front of everyone?” “Does she have a boyfriend?” and so on The longer they wait, the more cancerous thoughts burrow their way into their noggin, making even more difficult to approach. Don’t fall victim to this.

When you see a girl you like, take no more than three seconds to approach.

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